Blogging with Attitude and Ego

“Last Friday while leaving office with my friend, she  told me to wait for the weekend in the city itself.

Generally every weekend I visit our financial capital (FC) which is also my hometown to meet my parents and also to attend the class for a technical subject (SAP).

But me and my friend wanted to see the nearby places of which mostly mountain ranges and some old forts. They are very beautifully especially during this season (monsoon) when these places are lush green and sometime partially covered with fog and cloud.

She wanted to visit these places this weekend itself. So I canceled all my tasks of FC.

But really we were lacking of planning about how to move and when to move.

I must tell you we both have almost common mindset and qualities that’s the reason I like her but unfortunately we even have ego as our matching qualities.

So with lack of plan and ego we left with one thing in mind that we’ll decide everything on call

But you know when you have ego it is very hard to co-ordinate. She never called me

In the city on weekend after several months, alone in my apartment. I was counting on my watch. When it was 10 and still no call from her, I was really frustrated and angry. And my ego was not allowing me to call her.  I had almost decided to break all relationship with her and not to speak to her here after. With this in mind and anger I don’t know when I was in fast asleep.

With a good nap, all my anger was lost. In fact now I was much worried about her.

So leaving my entire ego’s aside called her on her cell. She picked up call with her sweet voice

She had lot of work to complete and it will take a little while to complete, till that time she told me to come to her place. I was somewhat annoyed since even I had my works which I had canceled to spend some time with her.

But visited her place. Generally trips are way by which I stay in touch with my near and dear once.

So even if we are with each other for the day, it’s OK.

I stayed at her place had our lunch and relaxed for some time.

Evening we went out for a movie. So now I was relaxed.

After movie we just had a small walk along the street. While walking I told about my annoyance

And we had a small fight on that. She didn’t say much. But when girls don’t say anything then probably there’s going to be a war soon.

Don’t know how she would react to this on Monday.

It is worth to watch, better than that movie.”

This reminds me of our blogger friends, about their reservations and attitude

  • Like if you have commented on some ones blog, you will expect even him to do the same on your blog. And if he didn’t oblige, then never to comment on there’s.
  • If she commented something against you, even you would do the same. (Equal and opposite reaction)
  • You won’t visit your fellow blogger’s blog first.

According to me it’s not worth to have such ego and attitude. Definitely you should value your time thing but expects something or some reaction in one shot is not fair.

We should give others some time to understand, and mark our presence. It’s always good to speak up our mind about what we expect rather than feeding our ego and attitude.

Many of bloggers must have experienced such things. I’ll love to listen to their reaction on them.